not exclusive....hollywood.tv.com repoted this about 2 hours ago

not exclusive....hollywood.tv reported this about 2 hours ago

good

I guess magazine covers aren't enough for grandma Lynne. Hell, if you fly all the way to LA you might as well see someone who wants to see you. TMZ is reporting Brit has phone privileges with the boys as a result of last weeks hearing. Privileges? Good mother, HUH?

Why would she go where she is not wanted?

Face time with Britney? Only if she catches her at the local gas station or drugstore. Who gives a shit about that self cunt anyway. Glad shes here to see the lil boos. Great job your doing K-Daddy, keep it up!

Good for Lynn, funny how thing work in life. Her daughter ban her from seeing her kids now She can see the kids and her daughter cannot see them. That is good of Kevin to allow their grandmom to visit .

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

HOW'S THAT FOR KARMA, BRIT??

YOUR MA CAN SEE THE BOOBOOS BUT YOU CAN'T!!!

SUCKS TO BE YOU BITCH!!!

LOOKS LIKE MAMA LYNNE GETS THE LAST LAUGH!!!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Go Kevin! I just wish I would not keep seeing the faces of those boys on the covers of the tabloids. 1 and 2 year olds do not belong there!

Bitch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Interesting that she is able to get along with Kfed better than her own daughter! He has never blocked her from seeing the children and has treated her nicer than her own shitheaded daughter! Twitney is just a huge pile of shit as far as being a mother goes!

OH BTW BRIT....I HAVE A LOT MORE IN STORE FOR YOU!!

FASTEN YOUR SEATBELT BITCH YOU ARE GONNA NEED IT!!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!!!

good for kevin to welcome her in. fuck britney.

Hey Karma!
For some reason, I get the feeling that Lynn Spears is far from laughing at this point!

LYNN IS TO BLAME FOR BRITNEY AND JAMIE LYNN'S FUCKED UP LIFE! Your children turn out the way YOU raise them. LYNN IS TO BLAME.

She needs to check up on Kevin, too.

Britney, the self-centered, filthy, nasty slut is a better mother than Lynne.

GO KEVIN!!
GO KEVIN!!
GO KEVIN!!
GO KEVIN!!

Britney,
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ღGOD BLESS..... ღ
ღGOD PROTECTS YOU...... ღ
ღGOD ILLUMINATES YOU.......... ღ
ღGOD GIVES PEACE TO YOU............ ღ
ღAND MUCH WISDOM............................... ღ
ღGOD BE WITH YOU.......................................... ღ
ღMUCH PEACE! MUCH PEACE !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ღ
ღPEACE, PEACE, PEACE, PEACE, PEACE, PEACE, PEACE........ ღ

♪ ღ ♪ ღ ♪ ღ ♪ ღ ♪
ღPeace, Prosperity and Passion for you and your boys!!! ღ
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So why did everybody bashed out Kevin earlier when they where married.
Why did the mags say he was cheating and that people did NOT hope their marrige should last; he was not good enough for her.
That made her file for a divorse. Sad.
They could have been married and happy if it wheren't for the paps and magz gossip.

3:38

"HAS THE LAST LAUGH" IS AN EXPRESSION MEANING THE SAME THING AS "THE TABLES HAVE TURNED"!!!

BRIT WAS LAUGHING WHEN SHE BANNED HER MA FROM SEEING THE BOOBOOS......AND NOW THE ROLES ARE REVERSED!!

SORRY BUT AS THE SAYING GOES......I AM A BITCH!!!!

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!

LYNN IS TO BLAME FOR BRITNEY AND JAMIE LYNN'S FUCKED UP LIFE! Your children turn out the way YOU raise them. LYNN IS TO BLAME.
January 28, 2008 3:38 PM
Posted by: Anonymous
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Nah. I know parents who did everything right and their kids were big fuck ups. And I know parents who did everything wrong and their kids are successful and well adjusted. While how your parents bring you up plays a part in your overall behavior, the onus is on Britney to grow up and stop being the stubborn attention whore that she is. When she realizes that the world doesn't revolve around her, things will be better. I'm not a fan of Lynne really but I don't think anyone can place blame on just her for Britney's behavior.

Fucking traitorous BITCH!

Lynne's meal ticket cut her off the gravy train, now that MONEY GRUBBING WHORE is leeching off her former son-in-law!

It's ALL about the money with that EVIL CUNT LYNNE!!!

ALL ABOUT THE MONEY!!!

D-I-S-G-U-S-T-I-N-G!!!

Britney is to blame for her own actions. She is not 12 years old. No one can make her lose her kids and not want them but Britney herself.

At least the kids have Kevin, his family and Lynn to love them.

It's not the paparazzi's fault that Britney filed for divorce. She kicked Kevin out. It's her own fault.

Yeah wear that big cross Jezebel!

Jamie didn't give Britney attention enough. That's why she is needy for attention from men.
Jamie Spears was always drunk and his behaivor scared Britney. She tried several times to stop fights between him and Lynne and between him and uncle Willy.
Brit had to take big responsebility too early and do a big career too early.
That all together affected her and her being unable to evaluate and interact, I believe.

KEEP THAT DISTRUCTIVE BITCH AWAY! we've already seen what her parenting can do.

KEEP THAT DISTRUCTIVE BITCH AWAY! we've already seen what her parenting can do.

The best thing Britney ever did was kick k-fed out!

Oh, thanks for reminding me. Women are supposed to keep husbands who cheat on them with other women and who do drugs and bring the drug dealers into the house with the babies.

Kevin brought on the divorce himself. Most women would divorce that low life. Well, most wouldn't have married him in the first place. Kevin never wanted to be married. If he had wanted to, he could have married his other baby mama. He just wants to f around and have a great time, like an adolescent. And if you've got Britney Spears' money to do it on, why, live it up.

And, yes, the media did ask when was Britney going to divorce this low life, and rejoiced when she did. Now they sing his praises and trash her. Just shows you never to believe the media at all and that they try to manipulate people and facts just to get a story

4:04 I agree with you fully!

Britney has done her fair share of cheating and breaking up marriages. How quickly and purposely people forget.

Jamie spears definitly had an ill effect on Britney. She shuts everyone out, focuses way to much on the men in her life. Like her skipping town with Adnan, when she should have been focused on her children. Its like she gets way to wrapped up, why shut everyone else out? Its weird. She closes the door and becomes way to involved its so unhealthy. Her entire support system is gone and its just her and the man of the hour. She also chooses her men over her kids . She is such an unfocused and not as dedicated a person as we all thought she was, she has zero loyality to her kids too , so odd. I dont think that part is mental illness, I think that part involving her relationship with her children is just a personality flaw. It takes heart morals,values and good character to be a good parent. Its like Britney is just missing that parent gene or instinct completely.

The media trashes Britney now because she is a fuckin' pig. Who on the globe hasn't seen her privates more than once? She always has food stains, grimy hair, and sleeps with random skanky guys she picks up in parking lots, literally.

What's not to trash there?

3:52 second,
so when Sean and Jayden get 20 years old and if they get troubled, it's not because of Britney. They are to be blamed for their own actions and nobody will blame Britney? Can you promise me that?

How many married and "in a relationship" guys has Britney hooked up with? As recently as last week! Bitch has no room to talk about sleeping around when she's such a whore herself.

I hope she gets her kids back...and smashes their retard heads on the ground like two eggs!FUCK KIDS!

POOr Britney, I feel so bad for her, My heart aches... she can't help being crazy. you would be crazy too if you has so much scank and dirt balls in your hair you couldn't hear what accent you had, at any given moment, You haters ever think about that, I bet you' wouldn't like it much if you had to use a scraper to get your old brown Boots off at night then use the same o'll scraper for your underwares too. Sucks to have a filthy weave, Oh lets throw her a shower. I mean a real one :p Lets have a national Britney shower day. Lets not bathe until she does . who's down??? fans .. anyone..any fans here..any left..anyone..

Of course Lynne gets along with Kevin, he treats Britney like shit just like Lynne does and always has.

From day one Lynne took Kevin's side over her own daughters. Britney doesn't need this using piece of shit so called mother.

4:04, thanks, just what I wanted to hear.

Britney treats her mom and Kevin like shit.

RE: Oh, thanks for reminding me. Women are supposed to keep husbands who cheat on them with other women and who do drugs and bring the drug dealers into the house with the babies.

Kevin brought on the divorce himself. Most women would divorce that low life. Well, most wouldn't have married him in the first place. Kevin never wanted to be married. If he had wanted to, he could have married his other baby mama. He just wants to f around and have a great time, like an adolescent. And if you've got Britney Spears' money to do it on, why, live it up.

And, yes, the media did ask when was Britney going to divorce this low life, and rejoiced when she did. Now they sing his praises and trash her. Just shows you never to believe the media at all and that they try to manipulate people and facts just to get a story
January 28, 2008 4:04 PM
Posted by: Anonymous

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Do you know Britney and/or Kevin? Were you there...stop speculating! Nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors. Stop believing everything you read in the tabloids. As a friend of both...it's all bullsh*t!

Kevin wanted to divorce her. He did not want to be marry to her and that was why he was out with his boys constantly. He was at the point in the marriage when he could not fake to like or love someone he did not love so he went out with his friends. She had no business going behind someone boyfriend the same mess she did to Adnan now he is selling her out which she brought on her self. Lynn is not a bad mom. She did her best to raise her kids. The older brother is okay so I don't think it is okay to blame her. Brintney is an ADULT she is responsible for her choices. Lynn did not tell her to go out tp party, have sex with any loser man u meet, Drink, do drugs she did it all on her own.

Grow up you BRITARDS.

Your skanky drug using popstar's career is over.

Did you read her uncle's story about how she was using drugs and drinking as a teen? That's Britney!

I hope Britney never has custody of her kids again, because she has already traumatized those poor boys enough.

I love what someone else posted about the role reversal. Ha! Dumb bitch thought she was SO slick trying to ban Lynne from seeing the boys and now who is the one on outside looking in?

$%*&%$Q%&*686675$#@$@
God bless? Nope, cursed!
God protects you? Can't protect evil people who ask for it!
God illuminates you? Not when you're dumb as a rock and act like a dirt clod!
God gives peace to you? She's a fucking self made typhoon of psychosis!
And much wisdom? She never had it and makes the exact opposite of wise choices!
Much peace? She is cursed and will never find peace because she only loves herself!
No Peace! No Harmony, No Happiness, No Clue, No empathy!Only a Hellish Life!
Only Disharmony, Greed, and lust for you while you put your kids in DANGER!
Hate and Contempt for Brit!
Now I think I'll print this everytime I see that nut above me drops her crap! Happy now BITCH!

4:22, has Kevin brainwashed you too?

Britney acts almost like her father did.

Jamie didn't give Britney attention enough. That's why she is needy for attention from men.
Jamie Spears was always drunk and his behaivor scared Britney. She tried several times to stop fights between him and Lynne and between him and uncle Willy.
Brit had to take big responsebility too early and do a big career too early.
That all together affected her and her being unable to evaluate and interact, I believe.
January 28, 2008 4:00 PM
Posted by: Maria
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My father was far more abusive than Britney's and my childhood was very traumatic. But I have two sons and never once treated them poorly, neglected them, or had DFCS at my door. My Dad never paid attention to me except to put me down and degrade me but I married a fantastic guy who treats me wonderfully. You decide how to live your own life. You can't blame everything on your upbringing.

She's no different than any other child growing up in an alcoholic home. I know, it happened to me, and it was horrible, to say the least. But you have two choices. You can continue the dysfunctional pattern or you can learn and grow from it. Luckily I did the latter. You can't blame your parents or your childhood for the decisions you make as an adult. It showed me exactly what I didn't want to become.

Just shows you never to believe the media at all and that they try to manipulate people and facts just to get a story

January 28, 2008 4:04 PM
Posted by: Anonymous
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Did you think maybe Kevin grew up for the sake of his children? I seen these little boys would have NO parents if someone didn't step up to the plate and take charge. Mommy cetainly wasn't going to.
Britney goes after men that are currently in a relationship. A back up singer BEFORE Kevin, Kevin, Adnan. It's the chase that thrills her, she don't have time for kids.

Kevin, BE STRONG dude! Don't pay any attention to all of the Britards bashing you! You DESERVE every penny for putting up with Britney's whiney, selfish ass for as long as you did!

And BEWARE of Momma Lynne! She's smart like a fox! She knows you are going to be the one controlling most of the money soon, so she is kissing up! And resist the temptation to tap little Jamie Lynne though we all know you could easily do it. She's still jailbait and could ruin everything for you.

Kevin, you are almost on the home stretch now. Reach deep inside yourself to find the strength to hold out until this is over and you get that big, fat payday! I know it must be tough, but you can do it!

Remember, the whole world is pulling for you!!! We are with you, dude!

GO TEAM KEVIN!

Look at christina Aguleria she had a horrible father wrose than Jamie and she turn out okay. She is happily marry and is a mom to a little boy. All britney want to do in her life is blame everyone but herself. She Have turn into her father . I agree with 4:32.

Blaming the parents only works when the child still lives at home. Once they are on their own they have to take responsibility for their actions. When kids eff up you blame the parents, but when they get their life together that's all them? Makes no sense. Once you have a child it's not your life anymore. You're not allowed to be selfish anymore, Unfitney has never understood that. Even the court monitor said that it was all about what she wanted to do not what was best for her kids.

You can blame who you want for the hardship in her childhood.

But when she decided to have children she should it was a lifetime commitment, not a 'long as I feel like it' commitment. It's every parents desire to make their childrens life better than there childhood and life was. At least it should be.

Is he wearing Prison Shower Shoes

if it were not for britney's money kevin would not have the means to feed himself let alone take of those children. how much has he paid in support for his other children before britney? he is a real dead head user

Christina Aguleria quote after she had her son.....

"You can keep the grammys. This is what life is all about"

She will be taking Max with her everywhere she goes.

4:32 second, no not everything, but I guess you didn't have paps following you for 10 years and where you in the spotlight as a 10 year old?
Did you suddenly get millions of dollars and was forced by the producers to act and dance sexy and change your voice?
Where your face and your 2 sons face on the magz every week when they were under 1 year?
Lucky you and me who found a nice, trustful husband.
And we never get followed. We have our privacy.

It was reported yesterday Kevin makes over a million a year from promotions, commercials and appearances.
Had he not met britney, he may not have had the opprotunities he has today....but he would also not have Sean and Jayden.

Hey 4:04, Twitstain pursued him when he was with another very pregnant girl. It didn't seem together Twit in the least to steal him away! Shitney had been doing drugs LONG Before she ever stole Kfed. They also mutually did drugs together. Shitstain already had a long history of cheating and lying as witness from her cheating and lying with Timberlake- who dropped her because she cheated! She, not Kfed is the one accused by the court for having Drug and alcohol problems, NOT Kfed- and you can bet they checked Both of them out! The court then awarded Kfed the children and has kept them there for some time now. She was also carted away restrained to a hospital and ran away AMA and refused treatment. So what have we heard about kfed? NOTHING!!!! No one close to the situation has said anything negative except for Twit and her fantards! Not even Twit family has said anything negative about him and he has remained in good standing with them all since then! All Twit has done has created drama and problems everywhere she goes with everyone around her. I guess shit-for-brains fantards are able to miss all that in order to blindly worship their Queen of Psychosis!

she is a money grubing whore slut bitch who is NOT worthy of being called a mother never mind a grandmother BITCH

Kevin will be hosting all the Super Bowl comercials. What is Britney hosting? I forget. Oh yeah that's right, Starbucks, The Porn store, and all the fast food shops in LA. Go Brit.

It doesn't matter how she got her, it's how she is dealing with it. She is NOT taking responsibility for two lives she chose to create, you don't throw that away.

As Kevin raises the kids now, he's responsible for them now. Stay at home Kevin.

AWW , I love the christina quote that an example of a good mom unlike her one time ravial.She will be a great mom. Britney expose her kids to the paps since they were born for money and attention. Even though they are afraid of the paps she used to bring those poor boys infront the camara what a wicked girl. Glad Kevin keep them away from the paps. They are babies who should not be on magazine cover. All the pics of the kids on magazine cover came from when their crazy mom was carrying them in front the camara for attention.

WOW you guys can hate.

This is just FEDEX's retard way of getting back at Brit -- AGAIN.
And you guys still go on about how his daddy of the year - and so not manipulative.

Wake up and smell the coffee Lynee - if you wanna see your daughter.

Way to get that reunion working!!!

I dont care how bad I get. My mom's not stabbing me in the back over a divorce - and would never stop trying to see me.

Grandmother and Father of the Year!
Yea right!!!

Oops, in 4:49, I meant it never bothered Twit in the least bit to steal away Kfed from a pregnnant girlfriend! Yeah, Kfed's not a perfect guy, but his is light years above Ms. Drama Queen, who seems to revel in playing the victim! You know what, Fuck you fantards! The courts and doctors have the final say over this and what they have said totally goes against Shitstain Every Single Time! There is a reason that things have only gotten worse for her and better for Kfed! She is a nasty fuck up and has only been a negative, problematic parent to those kids. When the police storm Kfed's compound and rip them from his hysterical arms, then we can talk! But you fantards haven't got shit to say except accusations without proof!

Hey Maria at 4:45

Paparazzi were NOT following her around when she was ten? And the reason her kids faces where in magazines was because she called the magazines and took the kids out.

Notice how we see no new pics of the kids since Kevin has had custody. Because they are home playing with toys like toddlers should be, not slung around in restaurants and boutiques while mom buys herself new clothes.

hey isnt lynn not supposed to have contact with the kids per a court order.....if she was on any medicine

Of course Kevin wanted to marry Brit, otherwise he wouldn't have done it.
And he wanted to divorce, that's why he partied in Vegas and treated Britney bad, like videotaping her for example.
Then he got the Tarzana mansion and the Ferrari...

4:48... that's stupid to assume Lynne is only there to get back at Britney. Maybe the woman wants to see her grandchildren. Now that Kevin has full custody, she has to go to Kevin's house.

What good would it do to go to Britney's house to see her grandkids, when they are not allowed to be there.

5:05 there is no court order. Britney had some lawyer out of state write a letter stating that, but it's not a court order, and it's entirely possible that Lynne hasn't taken any drugs. Unlike her pathetic piece of shit daughter.

Kevin moved to the house in Tarzana after breaking up with Britney. She never lived there or had anything to do with that house. I believe Britney took the Ferrari back. I remember photos of it being hauled on a flatbed truck.

5:03, I said "paps following you for 10 years and where you in the spotlight as a 10 year old?"

4:45 - Maria -
Britney could have privacy too, if she'd stop courting the paparazzi and inviting them into her home.

5:15, I now but she did that after she got confused and got anxiuos about loosing her kids, the monitors controlled every move at her home and Tony Baretto and Lynne was against her, then the spiral went down.
Of course she shouldn't invite the paps or show her butt and party, she was easy to fool...the crowd wanted more.
She was told by her fans and manager to do a comeback, they couldn't wait.
That began when Jayden was only 10 months, she went to LAX and the MTV VMA, even though she tried to say no to the manager and hesitated.
The pressure was hard and she still had 50 % costody, and that was too stressy.
One infant and one toddler, trying to earn their living and only heard lables.

Why no lp... it's the big bad paparazzi's fault. Nothing is ever Britney's fault. Didn't you know that?

An appearance on Star Search at age 10 does not put her in the spotlight. The paps have not been following her like they do know for 10 yrs either. It really has only been in the past few years that she has become their daily fodder.

Grandmother and Father of the Year!
Yea right!!!

January 28, 2008 4:58 PM
Posted by: Anonymous

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Did ya think maybe she's NOT out there to see her LOSER daughter. What a lost cause, can't blame her for wanting to see her grandsons, it's a good thing Kevin has the sense to allow her to see them. Good for the boys.

The papz started following her day and night after she texted, called and did everything possible to invite them into her life. Can't blame anyone for that one except britney.

It's nobody fault, there are just many complex reasons, why a celeb gets into a downward spiral.
She don't want to be this miserable and lost.

Maria -

Do you know Britney personally? You speak like you are a close friend.

Britney is an adult. She's responsible for her own actions and has to live with the consequences of those actions. Whether she (or you) like it or not!

All the attention Britney gets now is for all the wrong reasons. Every since she shaved her head, she has become a ticking time bomb. It is because everyone is waiting for the next disaster. The public can't believe what they are seeing and the paps just want to use her for money. Her sagging career really has little to do with it.
Sad, but true.

I bet Kevin goes out for "buissnes" when grandmaa comes. Maby Las Vegas.

Of course she has to live with it.
Why is a human being so needy for attention?
Can you explain that please?

maria,

What is "out for 'buissnes'"? All I care is that he's taking care of business as home. Go Kevin!

Of course she has to live with it.
Why is a human being so needy for attention?
Can you explain that please?
January 28, 2008 5:47 PM
Posted by: Maria

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That's easy! Britney is spoiled, selfish, controlling, and has been the center of attention her entire life. That's why she is so needy for attention. Simply put, she never grew up.

I hope he does, 'cos Britney took care of the home and the babys until the pair broke up.

Britney didn't take care of anything but Britney.

5:53, yes but she didn't spoil herself or gave herself attention. The public loved her. Now we give her attention by x17.

Oh, give this woman a break. She has a BEAST for a daughter. I'm sure she has tried and tried to get through to Shitney but the ditch pig probably told her to fuck off - the same thing she's told everyone else who has tried to help her. Stupid bitch does as she bloody well pleases, y'oll!

Money and attention is poison to some ppl.
Goodnight!

Money and attention is poison to some ppl.
Goodnight!

Maria,

You think Britney is a victim and I think Britney is an adult making poor decisions. If she's the victim of anything, it's her own self destructive nature.

Lynn has every right to see her grandsons. What is so underhanded about this? Some of you act like she has committed a crime.

Good for Kevin for letting it happen.

BRITARDS

ARE THE FUCKING SHIT STAINS ON THE UNDERWEAR OF LIFE!

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Does Lynne speak any foreign languages? Because these days Britney isn't communicating in much English. They might need a translator.

I think 'leave me alone you f%@king bitch' is pretty universal.

Well, I hope Grandma Lynn has a good visit with Sean and Jayden.

Count down til britney goes balistic.....10....9....8....7......

just a matter of time now.

HEY, ANONYMOUS 6:21!

Maybe Alstavista Babelfish online translator has a...

"Translate: Shitney to...(choose a language)"!

Hahahahaahaha! Dumbass Bitch!!

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I like to get banged in the ass by overweight Asian men...

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I like to get banged in the ass by overweight Asian men...

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January 28, 2008 6:47 PM
Posted by: RasputinsLiver
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REALLY?

Well, GOOD FOR YOU, RasputinsLiver 6:47!

So, you cover the gay crowd and this RL will make sure the gals're well taken care of!

By the way, are you a GOPerv? If so, and since ya like the fellers, why ya might try seein' if Larry Craig is down at one of your local public men's rooms for a li'l republican "Family Values" toe-tappin' fun!

Take care now, RL#2!

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Judge not lest ye be judged....There is no one here that has any insight to Britney Spears, Kevin Federline, or their families. Stop with the hate and being so judgemental. It's a sad situation all of the way around.

marco d...

are you a father of two...? :)

I think Lynne doesnt deserve to raise another kid. I think that Jamie lynn is making a mistake and some one shoudl step in and make sure lynn is not raising the child.... shes worse than brit.

It's about time Lynne. You accept Jamie's pregnancy and get payed to plaster it in the tabloids, but you haven't been there for Brit when she needed you most. I am glad you had a change of heart. DO THE RIGHT THING AND BE THERE FOR YOUR DAUGHTER'S. They need you! Even if it is to just know that they are loved.

MeNY...

it's SHITNEY's fault her family hasn't been there. did you forget the FAKE restraining order UNFITNEY served to her mother already?

STOP blaming the WORLD for BRITNEY's mistakes!!

Leave Britney and her family alone. Believe or not, Britney will still rock the year 2008. I saw her profile on millionaire dating site W e a l t h yR o m a n c e.com last week. It seems Britney is seeking true love now.

Leave her alone you people are the ones that are making her sick. Don't you see she need help and a real friend.