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Or not?

Earlier reports suggested that A-Rod's ex-wife Cynthia was furious about the Yankee spending the holiday with Madonna (and not with his kids), but is that what he's really doing?

A source tells Us that "it's not true. He's [A-Rod] going to be with Cynthia and her entire family for Thanksgiving, and this has been planned for months."

But why would he spend the holiday with his ex when they're on such bitter terms?

Should Madonna and A-Rod feel comfortable "coming out" with their relationship now? And is there still a relationship with which to go public?

Chat about it below, LIVE!