That's a blurry Nicole in the passenger seat of the black SUV

She was absent for AM's burial, she hasn't released a statement, she hasn't tweeted and we've all been wondering what's going on with Nicole since the tragic death of her ex-fiance Adam Goldstein.

It seems Nicole's just been lying low ...

But tonight she came out of hiding to mourn her loss with friends and strangers alike at the 12-step meeting/memorial at the Hollywood Palladium.

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Lindsay and Sam were there too along with club promoter Brent Bolthouse; Eric Dane and Rebecca Gayheart, AM's girlfriend Hayley Wood, Devon Aoki and others.