dinamichael460wm.jpgDina Lohan will be taking her three children, Michael Jr., daughter Ali and young son Dakota, to visit daughter Lindsay at the Betty Ford Center during the facility's upcoming family week ... but Lindsay's mom says her ex, Michael, won't be a part of that trip.

Lindsay's mom spoke with Barbara Walters by phone over the weekend, and details of their conversation were revealed this morning on The View.

Walters say Dina wanted to make it clear that she is a "reliable and good mother" despite the public's perception. Lindsay's mom refrained from talking about her ex Michael Lohan, who reportedly is not "on the list" of visitors at the Betty Ford Clinic.

Michael Lohan tells X17online exclusively:

    "To say something like that just shows how evil Dina is, how controlling she is, how self-centered she is and how she does not care about Lindsay's therapy or solving her internal struggle which caused this. I think it's clear to see that this is proof of how Dina has destroyed our family, driven a wedge between us and has polluted our childrens' minds. I pray for her because God will get even with her."


Lindsay will be appearing before Judge Elden Fox for a probation hearing on October 22.