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I know the "leaked" audio tapes are awful, but Mel Gibson's ex isn't doing much to help her situation!

Domestic abuse victim Oksana Grigorieva put in an appearance at the posh Four Seasons Hotel in Beverly Hills yesterday because, er, she makes so much money from her singing career? Oksana's monthly child support from Mel was recently bumped up from $5,000 to $20,000... which makes little Lucia one lucky girl!

Meanwhile, Oksana will reportedly not do the Oprah show because her family attorney (Anne Kiley) is against the idea. Maybe that's all for the best - after all, something like this could come up! What do you think Oksana would say in her own defense?