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Whomever thinks Christina should stick with Max and forget Matt Rutler, raise their hands!

(We're raising both arms right now.) Max is such a good thing for Christina while her boyfriend Matt is, well ... a questionable influence, to say the least.

The Voice star took her little man by the hand in New York Friday and headed out to explore the Big Apple, while Matt was nowhere in sight. Seems Xtina had a happy Friday the 13th after all ... One of the singer's wishes came true. Click through to see what she Tweeted yesterday ...