Jennifer Garner, Jennifer Meyer Violet pink lollipop daughter Santa Monica ruby ballet

Perhaps Jennifer Garner and Jennifer Meyer are bonding over their husbands' shared scandal -- Ben Affleck and Tobey Maguire are both embroiled in a gambling scheme that was tied to a corrupt Hollywood Ponzi schemer ...

Seems these two women share more than just their husbands' late nights out with "massage girls" and high stakes, their daughters Violet and Ruby also go to the same ballet studio!