Thousand Oaks Tori Spelling Cheating scandal Dean McDermott

Kudos to Tori Spelling for putting on a brave face amid adversity.

While her husband Dean McDermott is still seeking voluntary treatment for sex addiction, the mom of four was out and about with her wee ones on Monday, as a nanny aided the fatherless family in Thousand Oaks, Calif.

For the outing, the 40-year-old TV star showed off her slim pins in jean shorts a sweatshirt with a French phrase on it. The actress-turned-reality star shielded her eyes from photogs with oversized glasses.

While Tori looked strong today, last Thursday she was looking anything but composed when cameras caught the mom having an emotional breakdown with friends.

But while Tori tries to look as though all is well to the public, Dean still remains in a treatment facility following allegations that he repeatedly cheated on her while traveling.

In January, Dean released a statement after a report surfaced that he had had a brief fling in December with 28-year-old Emily Goodhand while promoting his series Chopped Canada in Toronto. In the statement, Dean said, "I am truly sorry for the mistakes I have made and for the pain I've caused my family. I take full responsibility for my actions and have voluntarily checked myself into a treatment center to address some health and personal issues. I am grateful to be getting the help I need so I can become the husband and father my family deserves."

As for the state of things now, a source told People on Thursday that, "It seems like she'll be able to forgive him but I don't think she will ever forget."

Radar Online is reporting that the majority of the father-of-five's indiscretions were "hook-ups whilst he was traveling."

Well whatever trials and tribulations the family is facing -- we're amazed that Tori can even hold her head up high. We wish them all the best during this hard time.