This poor girl must be sick of defending her decision to not have children!

Jennifer Aniston posed topless with her hairdresser pal Chris McMillian in the newest issue of Allure, and the A-lister was surprisingly candid over her frustration with being portrayed as too self obsessed to have children. It wasn't all negative chatter, though! The actress also gushed about fiancé Justin Theroux and her unlikely friendship with Brad Pitt's ex Gwyneth Paltrow!

"I don't like [the pressure] that people put on me, on women — that you've failed yourself as a female because you haven't procreated. I don't think it's fair. You may not have a child come out of your vagina, but that doesn't mean you aren't mothering — dogs, friends, friends' children," she vented to the mag.

"This continually is said about me: that I was so career-driven and focused on myself that I don't want to be a mother, and how selfish that is. Even saying it gets me a little tight in my throat," she continued.

The Cake star might not be eager to start a family, but she has found lasting happiness with fiancé Justin Theroux. "I'm so proud of him. We have so much fun together...It was nice to learn how to sort of relinquish control and let someone really care deeply for you. It's quite wonderful," she gushed.

The former Friends star was quick to praise her pal Gwyneth Paltrow as well. "I've known her a long time. That woman has got style to the moon and back. Chic, effortless, gorgeous. This sums us up. Look, I'm in a T-shirt, jeans, and 400-year-old shoes, and this one is just, like, to a T. She's always been sweet to me," she explained.

Everyone needs to let go of the whole "poor Jen" attitude!