Jennifer Garner was on mommy duty with daughter Seraphina on Monday, and she seemed a bit down in the dumps when we first caught up with her. Perhaps she was tired from the Oscars the previous night? Or is she just as confused as we are as to the status of her relationship with estranged hubby Ben Affleck? Of course, after spending a little bit of of time at a local store with little miss Sera, Jen was practically beaming, so it seems like it wasn't too big of a deal...

First reports surfaced that Ben and Jen had a cold exchange at the Vanity Fair bash last night (he was also partying with old pal Leonardo DiCaprio), but we snapped the estranged spouses together over the weekend RIGHT after Jen's VF interview came out, in which she called him "the love of her life," among other things. If they were really rebounding and/or on bad terms, don't you think they would be spending more time apart?

So, are they or aren't they back on?! They say they're not, but they also said they weren't splitting right before that happened, so we never know what to believe!