What traditional dating rules?!

Jennifer Lopez makes an appearance on Ellen today, and the singer revealed that she was the one who made the first move on A-Rod!

"It's very simple. I was having lunch somewhere and I saw him. He passed by. Afterwards I went outside, but for some reason I felt like tapping him on the shoulder and said, 'Hi," she confessed to the talk show host.

Jenny from the Block said that they starting talking about the fact they both live in LA, and that's when the MLB legend suggested they hang out. They didn't exchange numbers, though. Apparently, the baseball star already had the Bronx-born beauty's digits from a prior professional matter.

"He [later] texted me, said, 'Let's go out to dinner,' and I said, 'OK,' We had a nice dinner," she continued.

When the TV funny lady suggested the couple enjoyed a sleepover after their first date, the Shades of Blue shut that down!

"No. Mama don't sleep over on the first date," she quipped.

This is the reason why she's our queen!