Selena Gomez looked cozy in her oversized sweater as she used the large cardigan to hide behind as she arrived to and departed a friend's house, on Tuesday night.

Selena arrived with two friends and her bodyguard, stayed for a few hours and left around 11pm, hiding from our cameras. Why, Selena?! We love with she flashes her smile -- too bad she wasn't in the mood last night.

But beyond beauty, Selena's got a lovely mind -- and a mind of her own! The singer/actress was the first guest on Coach's Dream It Real podcast yesterday and when asked what she thinks most people don't know about her, she said this: "I think that a lot of people don't understand my heart, you know? And I also don't like that, it can be sometimes about appearance too. I don't really appreciate people judging me on my looks, or anything like that." She further explained ... "I just think that the world today, with so much exposure to everything...it's great to dress up and to feel beautiful and to do those things, but...and I'm flattered when, maybe, guys are like, 'You're pretty.' I am, it's just not...I would just love someone to love me for the person that I am."

Gomez also spoke about taking time off last year: "Last year, I took a lot of time off. I think that I needed a moment to myself because I do feel like I was growing and changing."

And when asked what she's looking forward to this year? Here's what she said: "I'm looking forward to my album and I'm looking forward to spending time alone. I think I'm finally, finally, finally at the age where I love being alone." Alone, but not lonely!